Not so long ago, I thought my life would be simple. I looked forward to a life which involves going to school, listening attentively and participating actively in class, having decent marks, going home, then back to school again. With regard to my relationships, I just wanted them to be stable and conflict-free as much as possible. What I didn't realize, due to the fact that I hate not being in control, is the fact that life is more complicated than I expected. Humanity is defined by unique complexities, not general oversimplifications. Case in point, our relationship might have ended on a not so good note, but I'm very thankful for the realizations.
I guess the bittersweet end could be attributed to the rough start we had. She had another. I was the one running after her. Well, she confessed when we were already together that she, too, had developed feelings for me. Yet, nothing can change the fact that something was inherently 'wrong' with the genesis of our relationship. I won't delve into the specifics of this particular event, but I think it's an important factor to consider.
Anyway, to add to that unfortunate start, our relationship seemed like the world economy, a story of booms and busts. The constant fluctuations in our relationship created this stacked-up feeling inside of me that had led to me cutting off ties with you. I'm not trying to play the blame game on this one, but let's just say we were both accountable to the demise of what we had. And I guess it's also fair to say that my careless ways had a bigger impact on our relationship. I know love isn't the same as falling in love, in a sense that the latter is more grounded on impulsive physical feelings, but my problem was concentrated more on not even having the will to will. I didn't have it anymore. I have nothing more to say; I'm afraid my words would simply sound like mere excuses.
Thursday, February 7, 2013
To You
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Thursday, November 8, 2012
Four more years, for more tears?
Just yesterday, November 7, 2012, the incumbent US President Barack Obama has sealed the deal to capture a second term as the head of the most powerful state in the world. After the economic problems and conservative backlash during his first four years, the Chicago native somehow pulled off a win in a tight race between him and Massachusetts governor Mitt Romney. With all the promise of change during his 2008 campaign unfulfilled, Barack Obama faces a reality that his country is caught between a rock and a hard place, and that poorly placed idiom is an understatement.
Anyway, the big question is: Can Barack bring it this time?
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| I said "Barack," not The Rock |
Of course, the president understands that some of the dilemma (e.g. Afghanistan war, a destabilized Iraq, military overspending) the US faces currently are the effects of other leaders (ehem, Dubya, ehem) before him. However, this does not, in any way, mean that the Obama administration have the right to play the blame game or make excuses for others' mistakes. As this year's election's theme suggests, it is time to move forward.
Of course, moving forward is not an easy path. The prominent hindrances to a successful, that is, fiscally and politically stable, Obama 2.0 administration is the impending doom brought about by the United States' "fiscal cliff," the international problems in countries like Syria and Afghanistan, and of course, Iran, which is perceived as a nuclear threat.
The first of the three problems mentioned has been talked about, although not comprehensively, in the presidential debates prior the November 7 vote. Obama's stance generally includes a tax hike on the rich which is the exact opposite of Romney's "trickle-down" tax policies. The former has constantly pushed for a Clinton-era type of tax increase for the Warren Buffets or the 1% of the American society; the latter, on the other hand, has advocated that the budget deficit could be solved by means of protecting the rich for future investments and minimizing, if not totally eradicating, welfare policies, which includes battling Big Bird him(?)self.
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| You're safe. Don't worry. |
With the "world's greatest nation" suffering such internal problem, it does not help that it has committed itself to various responsibilities abroad to ensure the spread of "democracy"--an ethos that has proven to be unpopular among the people of countries like Afghanistan. The Karzai government installed by the US has proven time and time again that it is not fully capable of handling its own state. Green-on-blue attacks are daily occurrences in most of its regions. The fact that the US spends billions of dollars on this state-building mission to fight terrorists like the Taliban who are, by the way, on the rise again indicates that the US is failing. With the troops set to leave by 2014, the efforts of BHO must be to their fullest.
The civil war in Syria posits another problem for the US government. The Arab Spring-inspired uprisings which started in March last year have escalated to armed conflict between the Free Syrian Army and the al-Assad forces, resulting to more or less 40,000 total deaths. Will the US and countries like the UK be successful in toppling the dictator Bashar, or will the former get itself into trouble again by arming militant groups like the FSA? Lessons from Libya show that transitions to democracy in these countries are easier said than done.
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| Prevention is better than cure. |
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| This says it all. |
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| Be a man. |
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